Saturday, September 10, 2005
Watchin tv now.. Its abt the then 14yrs old gal named Tina who went missing a few yrs back.. I really wonder what happened... Could it realli be her frens who misled her,influencing her n resultin in her not returning home? Hmm.. Just wished that she can/will return home soon..In my opinion, its realli unwise to jus succumb to peer pressure.. Ur frens are not u... they duno how u feel.. U may only wish to tell em some parts n not let em know abt other facts... facts which u take for granted, but the same facts may let em see how much pple had done for u... They arent u... they duno how it realli is!!!
They may only know a bit of this n a bit of that... They may want the best for u and hence perhaps they only see the cons of certain situation n not the pros. Ie; based on wat they tot is happening, they are quick to highlight the cons. So quick that u tot they are rite... that it was obvious, thats why they can highlight the pt so quickly. Cos they always say "the outsiders know best" (duno qing guang ze qing something).
But wat u duno is that they are only feelin that way cos based on wat and how much u told em (abt how u feel. This is wat they gathered from ur conversations!!! Others can never ever know how u feel. Its very hard to completely put a person in the shoes of another person n expect the 1st person to know exactly how the second person feels! Kinda blur huh? I will jus like to state that only the one who is experiencing the same exact situations and circumstances, the same growing up phrases, the one who has the same character and behaviour and IQ n EQ and watever Q as u will understand how u realli feel.. And the only one will be u urself.. no one else... I feel that one can never be able to empathise 100% with u.
Teenagers often go thru the phrase of "acting mature"... thats wat i feel.. Well, anyway they may feel that what they do n feel is correct... though socially incorrect, they want to break thru... they want freedom... they want others to know they are right... so they do things against wat adults will advise em on... to prove their worth perhaps...
Often, being trapped in such dilemna, some feel more reluctant to reject their frens "advices"...
Just how i feel ba... Not jus only for teengaers... but for lotsa pple...
Okie okie change topic.... got too worked up... duno why also... hahah...
Watchin news now.. its about the maid who was killed n cut up into different pieces... Its sad to know that the one who commited the crime is another maid who often hangs out with her... shocking.. I wonder how she committed the act.. Its gruesome... And the fact that she actualli managed to have the limbs and head discarded at Orchard and the torso at MacRitchie, is realli unbelieveable... Its sick...
Ehem... think i better end here... i might jus tok abt another topic like dengue fever takin lives or abt the tornado thingy if i continue... today is a different blog... one which makes me tired... hahaha... duno why also... Think i better sleep early today... There's still roadshow tomolo!!! Sian... tiring.... Opps... Shawn more tiring.. he gotta run for the Army half Marathon thingy tomolo... Ke Lian... Perhaps i should realli sponsor a foot reflexlogy session for him tomolo... I shall jus watch... hehe~~
p/s: The movie abt the car Herbie... its nice!!! Funny n nice!!! Watch it!! Nite peeps!!!
9/10/2005 09:30:00 pm
